Why won’t my girlfriend orgasm?
November 17th, 2008
Posted by Dr.SkinCare
So, my girlfriend recently told me she has never had an orgasm when we had sex. We have been together almost two years and I guess she has been faking it all along. I don’t understand what is wrong. I am very well endowed-almost nine full inches and very thick. She always complements me on the size of my penis so I don’t understand what is wrong. Is it possible she needs an even larger penis?
I guess I am too embarrassed to talk to her about it and I think she feels bad she told me the truth.
What can I do?
Thanks! God no. If anything you might be too big. So many men have the misconception that women think the bigger the better. It’s not necessarily true. If it’s too long it hits our cervix..very painful. If too thick it can cause ripping..also extremely painful. As long as you’re average size (5.75-6" hard), basically big enough so you don’t fall out while thrusting, you’re fine.
Most women can’t/don’t climax during intercourse. You just need to show her some extra special oral love. What I suggest is to perfect your oral skills. Give her pleasure before you have any intercourse. As soon as she orgasms, go in. This is also a good way for her to have multiple O’s (as I like to call them).
Since I’m such a nice girl, I will share with you a new found trick of mine for hitting the g-spot. Have her lay on her back with something (a firm pillow) placed underneath her hips and butt so her pelvis is tipped up a bit (towards her head). Have her put her legs together and keep them straight. You then make your entrance. She may have to open up her legs a bit so you can get in, but as soon as you are, have her put them back together.
I hope this works for you (and her of course). Good Luck!
~Jenyour size has nothing to do with it.A man can give a woman a orgasm by stimulating her clitoris . You can do this while having sex or not. Some men believe they have made a woman have one by simlpy being inside them, this is not true. It was either your pelvic rubbing her clitoris or she mentaly controlled herself .The sad thing is most woman are embarrassed about not having them so they pretend they do. In reality alot of woman reach their 30s without ever having one.Another great way is introducing vibrating toys while having intercourse, but sometimes this becomes dependant…lol. Whatever you do dont be affraid to talk, she probably has alot to say.Most women don’t orgasm with just intercourse alone, there has to be some sort of clitoral stimulation as well. And unfortunately 45% of women never will, but that’s what foreplay is for. Try a few tricks of the trade: you or she could rub it while you are having intercourse. Even placing a small vibrator on her clitoris during sex would do the trick. Perhaps you should also try a position that stimulate her G-Spot, no it’s not a myth, and it’s the best kind of orgasm in my opinion. Go to the local book store and pick up some kama sutra type books, Ann Hooper writes many that are helpful. As far a large penises go, a woman only has nerve endings in the first 2 inches of her vagina, so all the hype about bigger is better, it’s a lie. I started having intercourse at the age of sixteen, and didn鈥檛 have an orgasm until twenty-three. I thought something was really wrong with me! I read a magazine that said many women are unable to climax. According to the magazine, it has to do with needing direct stimulation to the clitoris; certain positions can increase stimulation. A woman can sit on top and lean forward until her clitoris is rubbing against the penis. Any position that a couple can alter to have the penis and clitoris rubbing will work. It worked very well for me and a couple of friends who were having the same difficulties. Good Luck and Don鈥檛 Stress!You need to stimulate her clitoris, if you don’t know what or where it is google it, also ask her how she makes herself feel good and have her show you. While you are doing it ask her if it feels good, but don’t ask too frequently because it can get obnoxious. Oral is always good, but it feels better to be touched while having sex, I like to touch the person I’m with so having them down at the end of the bed isn’t ideal.. Explain to her your not upset but that you want to give back to her what she does to you… ~Honey, you could be six inches long and pencil thin but if you know how to play, you could be giving her bunches of orgasms. If she hasn’t had an orgasm in the two years you’ve been together, she must be very patient. It’s obvious you have a lot to learn. Don’t be embarrassed to talk to her about it. And if you are clueless about what to do, head to a book store and get yourself an education. Even Barnes & Noble has books on sex.I like to start at the top of a woman and work my way down start nippling her ears, lips, neck, breasts, stomach, inner thighs and the to the fun hole. Give it a good going with your fingers rub the outside and then tongue it don’t even bother getting the old fella in their until she has an orgasm then stick the old fella in and use long slow strokes and slowly build up speed.
I have never had a woman complain about this and method. I have never had an orgasm during intercouse either. I have to either please myself or have myhusband go down on me because intercourse just doesnt do it for me. Alot of woman are like this. We have tried every position you can think of and we always have to resort to old faithful in order for me to orgasmRemember lady’z have been know to take up to 45mins…or longer to climax….and for us it just takes a good hard look….lol….but seriously i’ve always known that have plenty of 4play w/her first make her comfortable and relaxed and just please the hell out of her….get her warmed up for the pitch….u know what i mean….it means alot if you take the time to get her aroused first….it should make the difference….hope this helps =)NO an orgasm is different from moaning if u ask her if she orgasmed and she says yes then yes thats different i never orgasmed either in order for her to do that she has to know how to do it her self u can do it for her Look up clitoris and g-spot, you have to know where these are and what positions help her reach it best. It’s not size, because both those parts are near the beginning, its about maneuver.It is a possibility that you haven’t found ‘the spot’,or maybe she can’t orgasm?Give oral,that will most likely do the trick!
xoxo,鈾londie鈾?/div>
try different positions 
make her really turned on before sex..
candles, strawberries (meant to improve sex drive) lots of touching, kiss her all over, go ‘down there’ and use your tongue… and so on Alot more foreplay.She might be a back nine kinda girl, my friend can only get off if she has some "play" out back.its hard for women to reach that point during intercourse. maybe she needs to switch positions. u have to hit her g-spot.Take your time with her and make her feel comfortable.
try some different sex positions.
try pills
not all girls have orgasms
find her g spot
try the k stuff for him and her whatever its calledan even larger penis!? You would puncture her lungs with anything larger.give her a good tickle (clit). if you get one from that you will feel the moisture and then its your turn yet she will have moreNot all girls orgasm.hey you have a good size dick just keep it going you got nothing to be ashamed of Use some changes on some sex moves.
Or drug herfind out what really turns her on…….routine sex can get boring!eat her outhands down the eat her out guy should win
holy crap i cant breathe im laughing so hard xDno no no no no no no no no no non no
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