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October 03rd, 2011
Posted by Dr.SkinCare
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I’m seventeen.
The guy that I’ve been hooking up with is twenty.
I live in Boston and he goes to college here…
I haven’t told anyone except my best friend.
He’s really hot and a great guy and i’m having a lot of fun with him…but I know that its probably a bad idea, right? i mean I feel like as a senior in high school I’m mature enough for the situation, and I wasn’t a virgin when we started dating, although we have had sex but sometimes I just worry that I shouldn’t be doing this. But I really like him and want to continue seeing him. Idk. I just need opinions as to what i should do…is it okay to keep talking to him or should i just drop it completely…i also have a guy from my school, an exboyfriend, who is sort of in the picture as well. Idk. its stressful. but basically i need to know if me and Jared is a horrible idea or whatOK, so there’s a 3 year difference. That’s ok. I dated a guy who was 11 years older than me when I was 21. That’s when the family asks lots of questions. Your situation with the age thing is really not a big deal. Age really shouldn’t matter, as long as he treats you well and you know that you both like each other.
Now the ex. He is an ex for a reason, right? If you’re having fun with this new guy, then just go for him. That’s what I think. Good luck to you!
With the additional details in mind, the fact that he is in college and a guy at that age in that situation will mostly be after young women for a particular reason.(Sex) I would suggest to give it time, if he is a real man and you guys have fun together, he takes you places, etc. then maybe your mom will be ok with it all. The thing is to gain her trust.It depends on what your expectations are. If you can deal with the fact that this probably will not be a long term thing, then continue to have fun (but do it safely). I’ll be honest, this guy doesn’t sound like he is boyfriend material. I’m sure he likes you, but I think he’s just in it for the "fun" too.3 years isn’t a huge difference at all. I don’t really understand what the problem is here. You’re old enough to consent, he’s old enough to consent, you’re happy. The only problem is that ex. Exes usually lead to trouble. Plus, girls are WAY more mature than guys at that age. In fact, you’re probably more mature than he is…It’s okay to like older guys. Especially hot ones. 
However, if you’re seventeen and he’s twenty, it’s not exactly legal to be having sex with him. And if you two get caught…he gets arrested and you get shunned by your family.
So maybe you two should put your relationship on hold, at least until you’re eighteen. Tell him this and he’d probably understand, and agree.
Hope I can help.
Good luck!
~J~I think if you really like the guy then go with it, and try to stay away from ex-boyfriends, i think it just adds unneeded drama to your relationship, you should keep seeing this Jared guy if you really think you like him, it’s not wrong eitherYour college buddy is using you for sex, you young and he goes out to party with older people when your not around. I’m sure you don’t share any friends, so I guessing you’re his cock sleeve.im my opinion if you think it is a bad idea then it probably is. Also the longer you date the 20 yr old the harder it will be to let him go in the long run. don’t stress, you are way too young for it. hunny you keep that man of yours but rremenmber he prolly has prior history that he might leave and tend to as like xmas break.. but as long as your being really safe about it (use them condoms exp. cause he’s at school) if your having fun stick with it.. your only young oncehave fun but stay focused on what you do….I’m a boy, and def don’t miss out on having fun… but have a plan, you and him won’t last forever, it never does. just be smart about you. If you both truly love each other the age difference shouldn’t make a relevant impact on your relationship.
Follow your heart, not societies social implications and expectations.It doesn’t sound like you ex-boyfriend is completely out of the picture. It doesn’t seem to be fair to Jared that he’s not number one in your life.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…o buro i love your penis too! :]i love my penisthat is perfectly fine!!!! he’s only 3 years older than you!!! my parents are 10 years apart!!!! follow your heart. It sounds like you dont really think you are doing the right thing. I know this might sound bad and I do not mean to put you down in anyway because you are probably really mature and a great person but you have to ask- why is a college guy dating someone in high school? I am in college and the only reasons that cross my mind is if he is a freshmen (then thats ok, because he is only a year older) but is he using you/ has other motives for the relationship? Considering he is 20 and you are "just hooking up" I think he might be using you for sex. try hanging out and not having sex for awhile and see what happens…
Just stay smart and make sure you are getting tested for STDs because some guys LIE.That’s a tricky situation, and the only person who can really know the answer is you. I’ve had friends in similar situations, so I’ll give you the advice I gave them: as cliche as it sounds, if it doesn’t feel right to you, it probably isn’t. If it only feels a little off, try talking to him or to one of your trusted friends. If that doesn’t help then it may be best to break it off, at least temporarily.
Often the real problem is that you don’t understand what you really want enough to be able to decide. You may also be feeling pressure in the relationship which just puts more strain on it. Best you can do is to follow your instincts.
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