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No orgasms during sex.. I feel like he’s disappointed?
October 03rd, 2011
Posted by Dr.SkinCare
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I have never been able to have an orgasm during sex without "helping myself" I feel like my man is disappointed by this even though its not him and I know it. How can I tell him some women just cant do it this way, I dont know how to approach it cuz I feel really self conscious about it.. help please. 
Women are notorioiusly slow at reaching orgasm most of the time. This is possibly one of the reason why the guy just goes until he orgasms.
Yes, your condition can be frustrating for BOTH of you. He may feel he’s somehow inadequate at pleasing you and bringing you on to an orgasm or, he may feel you’re pretty much like so many other women who are difficult.
You are worried about it and now perhaps you’ve helped to create a self-fulling prophesy by being worried about it each time you have sex. This will most likely contribute to you not being able to reach an orgasm this time. It’s sort of like a performance anxiety for women.
I would suggest that you try to relax and try not to think about it while things are happening. It’s even better if he can understand and be somewhat more patient and attentive to your situation.
If so he can spend some more time just performing foreplay on you to get you even more aroused and closer to orgasming. Then, when you two start to have sex you may not have long to go before you attain an ‘unassisted’ orgasm.
There is nothing wrong with having to help yourself to reach orgasm really. You are lucky in that you can attain an orgasm as there are quite a few women out there who don’t seem to be able too and have to suffer or pretend to orgasm. The pretence seems only to reinforce their situation and they’re even further from enjoying sex past a certain point during sex.
People and sex are a funny mix. It’s not as easy as many think to get it all happening when you want and together at the same time.
Talk this over with your partner and see what foreplay you can do with each other and I think with some patience and a cooperative partner time will heal much of this and you may start to orgasm more often without your ‘helping yourself’ so often.
I have only had an orgasm once without "helping myself" Meaning when my bf was on top. I usually just get on top when I want to have one because that way I can control it. I think that it is normal for a lot of girls not to get an orgasm from having sex. I know that this could be hard to explain to a guy.Its very true that some women can’t get one without helping themselves. Some women can’t orgasm at all. Make sure he plays with you properly before sex ( see if he can find the g-spot for example). Always make sure his nails are clipped and his hands are washed before he plays down there to make sure no infections can occurYou can fake it for him or try some different positions, try hiking up rear up in the air on 2 or 3 pillows misonary style that makes things hit the G-spot better.if he is a loving partner he would understand.
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