How do you make a woman orgasm?
November 17th, 2008
Posted by Dr.SkinCare
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I have a girlfriend and I have performed oral on her before, but she has not orgasmed. I was wondering if I should stay at the clitorus? or move downward. She says she enjoys it lower as well. But can she lead to orgasm by me staying lower? or does she need stimulus in the clitorus as well? or can she orgasm with just the clitorus alone? thanksYour girlfriend is unlikely to orgasm unless you stimulate her clitoris.
You may have better luck using your hands until you figure out what works for her.
Some women are ultra-sensitive and find any direct clitoral contact painful. Even more women find direct contact painful until they are very aroused. If she jerks away when you touch her clitoris directly, this is probably the case with her. Therefore, you need to stimulate her clitoris indirectly. You can rub the hood (the flap of skin at the top) over it, or stimulate the base through the skin on either side. (The clitoris is approximately the same length of as the penis–except most of the clitoris is internal.)
Conversely, some women are less sensitive, and need pressure in order to orgasm. Your mouth may not be offering enough. If she does not jerk when you touch her clitoris directly, you should rub it using slight pressure.
The best thing you should do is ask her what she likes. If she is uncomfortable talking about it, you should pay attention to the noises she makes. If she makes more noise when you do a certain thing, she probably likes it. Likewise, if she makes less noise, she’s probably not enjoying it as much.
It takes some practice, but you’re already doing great because you care about her pleasure.Make sure she is completely relaxed. Give her a massage all the way down her back. You may feel little bumps or tense areas that kinda feel like rice. Massage those out. When she’s comfortable, orgasm comes from stimulation of her clit. Give that little guy all the attention. If she likes it "downward", as you say…then do that at the same time.
I think the main thing is that she needs to feel comfortable. Set up a romantic environment, with candles and rose petals. Play music that you know she will enjoy. Romance, my friend.It depends on the woman, but it’s almost certain if you stimulate her clitoris she will orgasm.
You have to remember that having an orgasm is not always necessary for a woman to enjoy intimacy. You’re doing a good job if she says she’s happy.Every woman is different.
I HAVE TO STRESS THAT. lol.
Usually the ever popular oral will work…but there ARE some women to whome it just feels terribly uncomfortable.
The only way to know is to ASK her.
Ask her to tell you what she likes, ask her how to get her there. Ask for instructions.
She’ll like that.
EDIT: I agree with Glockwork.
Some foreplay is always a good thing.Once you find the clitoris, it is very important that you blow on it as hard as you can, then you can make a wish, but it won’t come true if you tell everyone. Sometimes, the wax will melt, so you just have to eat around itIt depends on knowing your girl. But try this, pull back on the hood to expose all of the clit and lick see what happens.A womans clit is like a penis have to pull back on that hood get it all out there. Happy licking to ya =)talk dirty while eating boobs also good to stimulate plus many other areas good to enjoy together.Every women gets off differently. While you’re going down on her, finger her at the same time or play with her clit. Ask her what she likes. Have sex in stimulating positions. Talk dirty. Eat her out from behind.lick the clit finger lower and use that "come hither finger movement" and you’ll hit the G spotHas she EVER orgasmed with you, anyone else, or alone?
I’d start with finding out what SHE does to make herself orgasm.
well as a matter of fact, i like it when my boyfriend shoves three rubber fists up my black *** at the same time. its very satisfactory.you could finger her while you focus on stimulating the clitoris at the same time.You stick your finger up her vag and then rub it really fast
with a lighterrok so make ur tongue go inside and move it up youll hear the heavy breathingdo oral on her clit but finger her at the same time I think yahoo answers isn’t the best choice for this question roflmindy g 19 knows… you need to learn about the "g" spot… study hard,,,one word: g-spot.
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